
When being a mother of six seems a bit overwhelming.. Add to that equation, published author, student seeking Elementary Ed degree, business owner and survived living overseas in France, Turkey and the Ukraine. My grandmother told me I was an expert today.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Countdown To the New Year

Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Ice Skating Slush & Flurries
We found a winter ice-skating show of Ukrainian world and olympic champions. The show was nice, a bit cold inside so good thing we did not check our coats. The children enjoyed especially the Michael Jackson tribute to "I'm Bad". They also did versions of The Snow Queen, "Carmen" and "Swan Lake". One of the performers even had on like 16 inch high ice skates, very impressive.
The journey home was another story...
Monday, December 28, 2009
The Kyiv Circus
This was a very interesting circus. I saw some things here that I did not expect to see at all. At times, my eyes were bucked open, and other times, my mouth dropped to the floor. So, the center of the floor is the circus ring, I would say maybe 18ft across, with all the seating around the center of the arena. Children under 5 are free but if you want them to have their own seat, you shoud buy a ticket. We only bought 5 tickets, and if you can do the math, then you know we had some on laps.. The show was mostly sold out.
We also saw porcupines that climbed over a bridge, and around the ring.

I also like the pirate and his parrots, I have never seen such well-trained birds

I just wish they didn't have to wear the leopard suits.....
One part of the show had 2 very large bull sealions that bounced balls back and forth to the children in the audience. This was cool, but the only problem was all the children were down surronding the ring and maybe only two to three feet away from the bulls. All I could think in my mind is, "haven't these people ever seen When Animals Attack?
Overall the children had a good time, it was a nice day so I was able to walk down to the circus and back home which was nice for me because I miss my Calhoun Lake walks.
Ibrahim's favorite animal at the circus was the alligator, notice the 4 furry legs.
Snowing again.


Boys are at their practice. Khalid went with them today so they may get an exttra unexpected work-out. When they get home, they will probably wish they had not invited him along. I just hope they will be so tired that they will want to eat and go straight to sleep. I k
now some wishful thinking on my part that most likely wont happen... But.. I can nightdream.Friday, December 25, 2009
Happy Holidays to All Close and Afar


Stayed up way to late skyping with everyone at G&Gs but well worth it! So nice to see all the family and imagine everyone eating soup and opening presents around the tree. The kids keep reminding me that although we are Muslim, we do celebrate Christmas with Granma Kris, and that the holiday is about family and loving each other. They will be such well rounded citizens of the world. We did have presents from Granma too but we opened them for Eid, I will report however that the warm-footed pajamas are enjoyed by all. Breakfast was cream of wheat with Russian teacakes (snowball cookies) and tea. I think the whole box that mom sent when we first came over will be gone today, I dont think Idreis has found them yet. We had a short discussion about Prophet Jesus and the miracles he preformed and why he was so loved by some. We also talked about why Muslims believe that G-d is the Greatest, and that all things good and kind come from Allah. But that we would never equate an eartly man to being G-d. A bit much for small children to understand, but it was fun sharing the fish and loaves story, and also healing the blind. Khalid is due back in about 2 hours, I should probably start straightening up a bit and get dressed, I need another up of tea myself. So glad that I brought some Red Rose with me. I was a little sad last night, thinking about what we were missing, not the presents and food, but the good company of family and the smells of cardiman rolls in the morning, the snow falling and the stocking hung over the fireplace, well actually the stockings would be over-stuffed and laying on the floor. We are having homeschool now and Ibo and Isa are vacuming, have to keep the very busy or we never get any school work done.
We had a nice winter walk yesterday up to the park, they have built a winter lodge for Saint Nicolas here were you can be photo'd, etc.., we skipped that, they have a stage set up too and of course the El-Amin 5 wanted to get up there and show their moves off, but we passed on that too, it was very foggy last night. They made two snowmen, and had lots of fun throwing snowballs at each other. We found a vending maching that had hot chocolate and I guessed the right button so we all enjoyed hot cocoa while walking around. It wasn't too cold out either so we had a nice time.
The owner came and changed the sink faucet, I guess that is what they decided that was the problem.. The owner also handed me her cell phone to have someone who spoke English to tell me to, "be careful with the children and the water". So, if all else fails and you have three plumbers come and try to figure out why there is water dripping into the lower unit, but you reall dont know why... When all else fails... Blame the children. I politelty told her that we have not had any problems with water spilling over in the bathroom. Hopefully whatever we did will solve the problem.
We also found that we have Tetris game on the cable, so we can play it on the television, it is like the only video game that I am good at, and the Wii is still not fixed, but I do have the high score.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Winter Break
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Winter Wonderland

Power is back on and it is still snowing. We went on a walk and bought Ish and Dreis some snow boots, let me tell you, they dont believe in shoveling the sidewalks here.. not at all. The furs are in full effect and make me feel like I should have brought mine along. Not sure what is for dinner, but K is leaving in the morning so hoping he will go to the store and stock up for me because the idea of walking with them all done there in the snow is not very appealing.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Power To The People
Needless to say, no Saturday morning cartoons.. We spent the morning in the house playing Scrabble, some new card games and just clowning around, without any power. Still very cold in here, although the heat is on??? Afternoon came and we decided to walk up to Athina which is a Greek restaurant, maybe 5 buildings up from us. Before we went, the children and Khalid played in the snow (I will post pics and video tmrw). They had a lot of fun with each other and as Inayah remarked, " This is NariBears first time seeing snow". It was snowing while we walked, not much but enough that you had to dust off every 10 minutes. Lunch was good and the children enjoyed. Isa made sure to re-give Khalid's directions about when the bread came to only take one, " Guys.. guys.. only take one bread. Inayah, you get one bread, Idreis you get one bread, me get two and Ibrahim you get one bread, and Ish you get two". We all cracked up. Walked back to the apartment in the snow, power was on when we got back. YEAH!!!!
The power did not last long at all. Maybe 20 minutes... Ibrahim, Ishmael and I went back out to buy the Wii, not sure why, I guess wishful thinking that the power would come back on... it did not. We stopped at a electronics store and found a universal charger for Ishmael's laptop that actually works, and to our surprise when we went into the store and asked if anyone new English, the guy behind he register nodded and called somebody... Guess who came around the corner? A brother, Ish and I both had a shocked look on our face. His name was Daniel and he is from Liberia, well his father, he has been here his whole life. Very nice young man. Left that shop to go and get the Wii, and then got the boots and belt that I have had my eye on for like 3 weeks now. Back to the apartment... still no electricity. So I feed Inara and then head back out with Idreis and Inayah to go and get some more candles and supplies for dinner. I definently was able to get my excercise tonight so that was nice after being in the house for the past 2 days.. Kids are out of school now for the next three weeks, but we will be doing homeschool for sure.. I cooked chicken vegetable soup for the first time, it turned out pretty good, Isa fell to sleep at the table. Electricity still out.. we all ate candlelight together that was nice. The kids all played hidenseek in the dark with Khalid while I was cooking, so they were all running around screaming in the dark for a good hour. Inayah helped me cut up all the vegetables.
At about 10:30pm maybe later, the power finally came back on. I'm not sure that I believe that it will stay on, but while it is I thought I better check my emails and jump online. Thank the lord for some, power to the people.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Feels Right At Home
Picked up the school kids today with Mr. M, that is the name Idreis has given him, and rightfully so since his name is Malenco. There was a book fair at school today, so all picked a book out and suprisingly they all picked something interesting. I also went and made a partial payment on their tuition. I was handling business today, and that felt right at home. The staff at the school are very friendly. We left the school and arrived home about 4:45, I was able to get everyone a snack and then we were picked up again by Mr. M to go and try and find this basketball practice for the older two boy, supposed to get there at 6, left the house at 5;30 and still didn't arrive until 6:15. The practice was okay, they will both sleep well tonight. It is a M,W,F thing so im hoping something they will want to continue doing. We all went while K was still at practice and Ibrahim, Isa, and Inayah were right at home in the gym, running up and down the court, shooting ath the baskets. The practice is held at a school, the gym is so so, very old wood floor that looked very slippery and reminded me of playing floor hockey when I was younger.
None the less, running the boys around to a practice, felt right a home.
We made it back hom about 7:45, finished making the dinner that I had started earlier, baths, dinner and got them to bed, it is so cold in the apartment, What happened to heat rising? I mean cold... like my mom's house but worse, and for those who know how KG feels about turning the heat up, know what I mean. The upstairs where the school crew sleep is even worse, they have heaters against the walls up there, about 6 of them, conveniently located right below windows.. not sure what the point of that was, but they have extra blankets and body heat so they will be alright.
Inara is awake and crawling around, exploring, chewing on chicken bones, and trying to keep her little cheeks warm. It is nice and quiet, watching CNN, so like Cube says, "Today was a good day", im feeling right at home.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Mondays are always a great start of the week
I have been struggling with my raw foods day the past 2 days, but even having the idea in thr front of my mind has helped me not to snack. I will be missing soup at grandpas next week for sure, and my mom's holiday rolls.. no fair. I am sure those of you who are lucky enough to get her Winter Christmas Holiday cookies, can't wait for that delivery. I am supposedly going to plan out a lot of great things for us to do the next few weeks as all the crew will beback in effect since BISK is on vacation for 3 weeks, they wont go back to school until January 12th 2010.
Inara has decided that the stairs look interesting and waits at the bottom and calls up to the children. She is also putting her hands up on the couch and chairs and attempting to pull-up, but doesn't get up past her knees., and doesn't know how to get down. Which has resulted in a few head knocks.
Friday, December 11, 2009
Raw Food Day Foiled By Beef Pepperoni Pizza
The sidewalks at the park were icy so you could slide along while walking. Ibrahim took full advantage of that.
I was supposed to have a raw foods day today, introduced to me by my lil sister, I started out good with banana and water this morning.... didn't make it through to lunch, and dinner was no better as we had pizza, we made our own. It was fun to see the designs that the children came up with. Ishmael decided on a triple cheese and triple pepperoni, Inayah made a peace sign with her pepperoni, Idreis made an X, for his super x-ray powers that he has, Ibrahim was just random cheese and pepperoni. Of course if you are wondering how in the heck we found beef pepperoni in Kyiv... we didn't. Another one of my smuggled items. It was a good time, but totally put a grand finale end to my supposed "raw foods" day. I am for sure doing it tomorrow, I have everything I need, so no excuses but my own self desires.. and the chocolate chip bars that I made last night did not help either.
Well it is Friday night, which means, Dancing on the Sixth... full of laughs.
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Our First Snow
I can't believe that he is five now and will be starting kindergarten in the fall.
Friday, December 4, 2009
Very interesting living downtown in a major city for the first time. People always rushing to beat the cross light, students hurrying to make it to class on time, couples in the park cuddled on a bench with their little paper cups (not for tea). We are in walking distance of Khreschatyk street which is considered by some to be Kiev's Rodeo Drive. There are always people out in about. They have decorated for the holidays so the street is covered with overhead hanging lights. Very pretty at night.
O' Happy Day
Didn't really do anything exciting today at all, nothing productive, cleaned, cooked, and cared for kids. The life... Not..... My life, so I will deal with the cards that I handed myself. Now, dont get me wrong, im not saying that I would have it any other way, because I would. I am missing the things in life that matter to a mother of six, FREEDOM.
At least there is a game tomorrow and maybe some fun on Sunday to celebrate Ish birthday.
Inara is on the move, she is everywhere, enjoying her new found movement. She is also becoming more and more interested in food and wants a cracker for snack now, she was even gnawing on a turkey jerky stick this afternoon.
Isa has become to mocking machine and feels the need to repeat every direction that I give to the children, right now he is headed upstairs to tell them to, "Go to bed and turn the lights off, and I dont want to come up there one more time" It is hilarious around here for real. Never missing a beat. He even went on the balcony this morning to yell down to the kids as they were getting into the taxi, "make sure you put your seatbelt on". I had to crack up.
Ibrahim is working on writing his letters with me during the day, today was E, and he did very well, I was suprised.
Here it is 8:30pm, I call myself trying to ge the school crew in bed an hour ago, since none of them like to get up in the morning and they do have school tomorrow (Saturday). Inayah upstairs playing hidenseek by herself, Idreis just came down here asking bout toilet paper, so you already know who I will be waking up first in the morning.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Ishmael is Eleven Today!!!!!!!!!!!
I think stay at home moms deserve a tax credit or something. I mean it is nonstop work all day long, way more than a 9to5 gig. It's like I should have a button on me like Rosie from the Jetsons, cook, clean, wash, hug, clean, teach, cook, preach, straighten up, budget, clean, cook, teach, pick a button. Don't get me wrong, I love what I do, but the work and the sweat. And Ido have a break in the day now with the school crew gone. Ibrahim and Isa will run you ragged. I mean here it is 10:00pm at night, and i'm still washing kids up and playing rubadubdub in the tub..
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Nari Bear On the Move
It took my girl awhile, compared to the other five,
but by golly I think she has it, and boy are we in trouble now.
I had to ask myself today, "How did she get out here?"
Just figuring Nayah picked her up as she always had.
No more backward scoots, or small yells of frustration,
because this evening, Nari Bear is a crawling,
a glorious celebration.
Really, really boring day today, the olders got off to school, and we waited around until 1:30pm for the cable man to show up...., he never did. A very gray day full of drizzle outside. The smaller crew and I took a cab to what I thought was going to be a great pre-school for Ibrahim and Isa part-time for 3 days a week, it turned out, that the all Russian speaking school did not think it would be good for the children to attend because of the language barrier... this is after I had exchanged at least 10 emails with one of the teachers.. in English. After getting back into the cab, I amused myself by playing the race card... just made me be thankful for JoyFull House in Istanbul, where all the staff were Turkish and barely no one spoke English at all but my children were welcomed and fit in just fine (Ishmael and Idreis). Children find a way to make sense of the world, without language, but if they thought it would be "difficult" who was I to say otherwise... onto plan B.
Dinner was leftover sides from Thanksgiving, minus the turkey since we seemed to have devoured that already. My caramel cake is still good, and even better for breakfast. I did make pancakes this morning for the school crew. They did not get home til about 5:15pm because of afterschool activities, today was Taewondo.
We managed to ZAP the Wii last night, somehow having the right adapter makes a difference, Ibo and Idreis were playing Mario for at least a half hour and the next thing you know it went black, now the main counsel will not turn back on.. pissed is an under statement, and I was going to do the Wii Fit program instead of getting a membership at a gym around here.. looks like I need to start researching that again.
Ishmael will be 11 tomorrow, so crazy to think the time that has passed since he was born in Storrs, CT. Seems like yesterday, but then it doesn't. He was such a joy to have for a first born, guess I just kept getting lucky after him because they all have made parenting seem easy in a way.. must be late because what the heck am I saying. Not too many plans for his birthday, I am going to try and bake a cake for him to take to school because we wont have cake at home until this weekend.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Eid Mubarak !!! and Happy Thanksgiving

I know your thinking... Thanksgiving was on Thursday. Well, if your and El-Amin living in Kiev, Thanksgiving falls on the Sunday after.
We finally sat down last night for the first time as an 8 part family to our Thanksgiving dinner. It was great and Ishmael read us all a Thanksgiving poem. We also all shared what we were thankful for. Traditional meal and I was so glad that my caramel cake turned out, and it was great at breakfast this morning
There were a few things I wanted to share, I should have logged on at the time because my memory is fading me now.. Oh.. yeah, one was when we were at the park the Hari Chrisnas? not sure if I spekked that right. They came through singing and dancing and playing drums... made me remember eating a big rice meal in California when I was younger, I think we went to their shrine or something, have to check with my mom.
All the children had a great first week of school, so for a reward we went to Aquapark afterschool on Saturday, very nice indoor waterpark, we went in the evening so we only were able to s
pend a few hours, but the children had a great time. They have a wave pool, slides, bumper boats, very nice, and even Inara was able to wade her feet in the water and kick at Isa. The ride by taxi was about 30-45 mins and that was without traffic and the cost for all of us was a bit over $100usd. So a kind of pricy evening considering you can't bring food into the facility. They have 2 or three restaurants onthe second floor but we did not have that much time for food, only swimming. The kids of course can't wait to go back.. Khalid was on the road so I took them by myself, and it felt just like at home, they were all behaved too, so that helped a lot. Isa was a little swimming fish, he did not want to leave, and Inayah was jumping and spalshing for her life during the wave pool, the waves were really strong.I had to go to the bigger super market, to get some last minute things for the Thanksgiving dinner, I saw a lady in her mid-40's, she was beautiful and had my skin complexion, I so wished to be able to communicate with her, since she obviously had some type of heritage. I just smiled and kept walkling with the boys, they have been playing in the indoor playland by themselves the last few times we have went, while I go shopping, so that is nice to get the things I need without dragging them. Also was able to get beef short ribs to go with the turkey.
Inara is crawling and moving around the living room like a pro, now if we could get her to move forward we would be in good shape. We always find her in a corner or under the chair or couch stuck. It is hilarious, I think soon she will figure out on her own how to move forward. The children are amazed and keep asking, "How did she get over there?" Teething some more and a bit grumpy some day, but still the sweetest of the sweets.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Got the three off to school, all in good spirits. Read a little bit and actualy did a few sets of my weights... not a first since we have been here, but something I haven't made time for like I should. Ibrahim slept in a bit so me and Isa had some quality time, doing dishes and painting. The taxi guy came to get us at 11a,m to go and mail some letters and also pick up my package from Rasheda (birthday package!!). So now I know where one of the post offices is at, a bit of a walk, probably 20 minutes, Khalid says there is one closer to the house but for some reason my package went to the other. Lots of goodies, cds, candy, and most importantly bath bars that explode, can't wait to get in the tub this evening. We are home now, Isa is napping, I am going to make K some dinner for the road trip this evening. Ibrahim is shooting hoops on his basket that he received for his birthday.
Daily Routine
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Happy Birthday Ibrahim Noah !!!

We had a really nice day and the sun was out, me and Kamillah took the children to the park while K and Ish were at practice. Horse rides and Big Wheel drives at the park, the horse guy tried to hustle me for 100 grievans, saying that I didn't pay him, I had to inform him in the most pleasant way, that I was raised on the Northside of Minneapolis via 16th & Vincent. I mean he really tried to say I didn't pay him.... which I know that I did... this is as he is giving mt 85 in change back.. nice try... I guess everyone has a hustle for foreigners, his English was pretty good too. But, you have to wake up a little bit earlier in the morning to fool me.
I baked a cake, Spiderman theme, it was delicious, we had a small party, very small, just the family, Ibrahim got a basketball hoop that he managed to break about 5 mintues after it was put together, he was naturally pissed off!! Did I say the cake was really good?
The older three are supposed to start school tomorrow, the taxi will be here at 7:50am to pick them up, me and Khalid will go with. Hopefully there is not too much traffic and hopefully they are not too tired, we all went on a 2 hour walk after practice, Idreis was dead man walking, but we all made it, Inara lost her hat, we went to the main downtown shopping strip, the Kiev version of Rodeo Drive, it was all lit up for the Holidays, we told Ibrahim that we all came out last night and put the lights up for his birthday, "No, you guys didn't, your all lying"..
Will hopefully post pictures and video tomorrow. Also saw my first biracial couple, kind of shocked to see, but very nice brother who spoke when he saw us and then also attempted to help Kamillah bring the stroller up the stairs, so a gentleman too.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Back 2 Business
Spent the day finishing unpacking, I left with one bag and came back with ten... but at least now we have everything we need to enjoy life overseas and feel comfortable. Wii night should be a lot of fun. Inayah and Ibrahim slept til about 330pm, this is after staying awake until around 630am.
We went for an evening walk and found a coffe place that is really nice, we could not order very many drinks because I left money at the apartment and Ishmael only had 45 grievans and I had a little less, so the original plan was to share hot chocolates, luckily I found some money in my jacket because we would have all been sipping on one drink. They also have internet access and are open 24hours. So that is nice to find another hang out spot or place to go with the children, or alone.
Inayah decided it was time to play her nintendo and goes to get her bag and lowe and behold, NO NINTENDO, she forgot it in the seat pocket of the plane.... not surpising at all when I think about the sleep walking state she was in.
I started reading PRIDE by Lorene Cary, if anyone has time to go to the library we could do an online book club together. let me know
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Home is Where the Heart Is

Friday, October 30, 2009
H1N1 has made its' way to the Ukraine
Managed to get them all in bed by 9:30, only to find out from Khalid that the team has cancelled next week road trip because of H1N1 and then I get online and do some surfing, to also learn that they have closed schools here for 3 weeks....... Now if you have been reading, you know what that means...., 3 more weeks of homeschool! Dont' know if I should scream now or later. The links I found are here under H1N1 and Influenza A. I have to admit I am a bit on the weary side... I don't know if the vacine is safe, but I do know they don't even have it here yet... we did get the regular flu shots before we left. The ironic thing is when we were walking home from the playland I saw a man with a medical face mask on, and I thought to myself, I wonder why he has that on...., now I know why. I know the best things we can do is keep our hands washed, etc.. good thing they have all been breastfed and have all those extra infectious fighting immune systems. Some good information from the CDC, and I know that hand washing and other common sense tools are the best way to fight flu and other sickness.
I'm still a little scared, okay a lot scared... but can't let fear be my guide.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
This Is It !!!

We tried to go last night to the movie, it is showing in English for a week, unfortunately it was sold out. We were all bummed. But, we were able to go this afternoon. The movie theater was really nice, chandilers, pillars and red leather cushioned seats that reclined, really nice... the popcorn was good too. We all enjoyed the movie, when it first started I started to tear up but no tears fell, I guess my heart was tearing up inside. The music was good and it was fun for all of us to sing the songs. Inayah was singing so loud to Beat It, that when the clip in the movie was over, she was still singing, "Beat It!!" all loud, the whole theater had a laugh together. She also made sure to tell me that, "Michael Jackson is my favorite singer and Barack Obama is my favorite president", and also wanted to know where he is buried at so" we can go visit him". Inayah was up dancing for about the last half of the movie, trying to imitate the moves of Michael. Isa fell asleep 3/4 the way through the movie, full on popcorn, juice boxes and M&Ms. Ibrahim had to show us his crotch grabbing moves in the dark when Billie Jean came on. I glanced over a few times to catch Khalid up out of his seat dancing and popping. It was special to share as a family, especially remembering how we stayed awake unitl 2am listening to his music and watching the music videos the evening that he passed away.
I liked the movie and it was for a me a nice closing to his life. Michael Jackson was a wonderful humanitarian and if anything else I hope people leave this movie with a desire to help create change in the world. As we left the movies, it was slightly drizzling outside, perfect for our slightly sad mood. I opened the heavy doors and yelled out, "MIIIAAACCCHHHEEAAALLL!!!, WE MISS YOU!!", Ishmael looked at me and laughed because this is not the first time I have done this. Idreis followed in suit with the rain as his eyes filled with tears and his cheeks held onto them until they fell onto the cement and joined the puddles that were already there. He cried the entire taxi ride home and up the 6 flights of stairs. I reminded him that, AllahuAllam, Allah Knows Best, and that we have to pray for his family, and children, and mother/father. Because as much as we think we miss him, they miss and love him even more. Sure to be a Michael Jackson music evening on the sixth floor.
We saw the movie at www.kinopalace.net for anyone who may read and want to catch a movie in English.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Countdown begins, as the older three will start school on Monday. Idreis is a little worried about being the new kid and had a cry this afternoon about that, Inayah can't wait, and Ishmael is just too cool and laid back to be bothered... And one of the other American ballplayers has a daughter that will start as well, so he will already have a friend. The registration was a bit overwhelming but they all played outside at the school park so at least I didnt have to bother with them. Just a lot of paperwork. But they are all squared away, not sure how they are getting to school on Monday but at least we have a few days to get packbacks and get all of that figured out.
I got down on the 1's and 2's in the kitchen tonight, although I did find a great Indian restuarant that is not far from us, can't wait to go there,but will have to wait, because we went grocery shopping and seemed a bit wasteful to go out and eat when we had food in the fridge to cook..
Also found some white sugar at the neighborhood shop so now I may try and make some brownies tomorrow...???
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Two Black Eyes
We did make cookies this afternoon, they turned out okay, I did not have white sugar so substituted syrup instead. They taste a bit off to me, but the children like them so I guess that's all that matters. I had to measure by the eye as I don't have any measuring cups, so that could have been the problem too. I'm sure they have white sugar somewhere, I had the brown sugar thanks to my packages, which 4 have still not arrived... why I paid for priority 6-10 days...
Idreis and Ish cut up the vegetables for the Curry while the rest did cookie patrol. It was interesting to see how much better they all get along when they are working together for a common cause. There was at least no arguing for that 1/2 hour of cutting and baking. We all worked listening to the very best of the Jacksons.
We left the sixth floor and took a walk out, so glad that I brought the sling, much easier than lugging the stroller and forces Isa to walk. The one I have is made by Munchkin and is called Jelly Belly. We walked around for bout a half hour and found ourselves in front of a huge toy store. They all picked something out, Inayah a baby doll in a crib, and the boys all remote control cars, Isa got a lego car. We had to walk the rest of the way back home in the dark which I was a little aprehensive but it was only about 3 blocks and we made it back in here safely. The boys flew to the upper level to make ramps and play with the cars, as I finished getting the kiwi cut for dinner and made the rice for the curry, I peaked in on Inayah playing and poor Inara was sitting in the baby crib with the new baby. Now the baby crib is a little over a foot long and about a 1/2 foot wide. Inara was just as happy as could be sucking on the baby dolls bald head. Inayah was pretending to feed Inara, and she went right along with the imaginary play, opening her mouth to eat air food. It was too cute. They are sitting around now playing Uno minus Isa. Khalid and them won the game, he had 33 points 6 assists.
I'm about to serve dinner and relax with the Wall-e puzzle that I bought at the toy store.
And it's Isa with the two black eyes, one thanks to Idreis and the other thanks to ??? who knows.. how it happened.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Back In The WebWorld
I did learn my first Russian word, I am planning to bake some chocolate chip cookies with the children tonight after the pizza comes, so anyways, I had to buy some butter (Maslak), we went down to the mom/pop shop downstairs and bought some with the help of the Point It book that G&G gave us.
Today will be the first of four spent without K, they are on the road again.
Headed out now to finally really go to the zoo.
We have our own taxi driver who we call regularly, and he was outside at 5pm to pick us up after 2 hours at the Kyiv zoo. We had a really nice time, and I have to say the Six were at their top behavior, I had really no problems and so that was wonderful. We saw some really cool animals, peguins, lion cubs, and a lot of snakes which was fun because we have been watching about them so much on Animal Planet. Inayah also took note that many of the animals were not taken are of very well. One of the zebras had wounds, the rhino had something going on top of his head. She has been watching too much of Animal Rescue, even though she is right about the condition. I am sorry to say that MN Zoo has them beat, although they have just celebrated their 100 year anniversary this year. The poor elephant was dancing instead of the normal crazy pacing, we all teased that he was doing the 1..2.. step over and over and over. The animals were very friendly and a lot of them came up close to the fences. But the overall attempts to create habitats were not the greatest. They did a nice job in the Reptile House, but then at the same time, they had the lions, pacing leopard and lion cubs in the same building... a very nice assortment of snakes, crocs, lizards and also a lot of birds throughout the zoo park. We didn't make it to the walkway or park part of the zoo, 2 hours was enough walking for Isa although I did bring the stroller. It seemed like they had a whole entire park to walk through besides the zoo. Hialrious to see skunks and racoons on exhibit. None of the monkeys were out, in fact all their cages were empty. Also the bear section was empty or being renovated. The wolves were also pacing and pacing which was sad. We all shared a cotton candy which was 3.50 greivans. Fun thing too was we were able to see the tiger eating meat and also one of vultures/falcons, and also the baby zebra (my favorite) I will list all of the favorites.
Ishmael= The whole Reptile house
Idreis= the crocidiles
Inayah= the snakes
Ibrahim= the horses
Isa= the zebras
On to the first baking project sine we been here. The oven seems to work good, the muffins and cornbread were a hit. I will just have to figure out the conversion temperature so they dont burn up. Sunday, October 18, 2009

Saturday, October 17, 2009
'Things have Changed"- Inayah
Inayah had Idreis' first grade teacher and they were both comparing their time with her. Both remembering times with Mrs. Bielke during the lockdowns and emergency drills. So, when Idreis was informing her on his version, she politely and snickerly said, "Things have changed", we all cracked up.
Dinner was a bit of a joke, well lets just say, thrown together, but everyone ate. Pickles and cheese for starters... dont know what kind of cheese we purchased at the store but one of them was like a smokey string cheese and the other one... really could ahve used some crackers, I jsut hope it wasn't goat cheese or something, but they ate it. Then they had bananas and pears followed by french fries and steamed shrimp... The one cool part of being overseas is you can always blame the dinner on the lack of having a Lunds around the corner to pick up what you need.
Khalid and them won the game, he had 14points and 6 assists. I'm sure Ishmael had a blast on the road.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Rain Rain Go Away, Cant Get Off The 6th Floor Today
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Ramadan in Ocotber !!
I also was able to finally get my hair conditioner and Ms. Jessie's products which are perfect for people with natural curly hair. No more Frederick Douglass jokes for Khalid. Inayah will be ready for the runway. It was like Ramadan over here as we ripped open the boxes... still missing at least four boxes with all of my Thanksgiving items that I need to make our meal.
Headed to the zoo or back to the indoor playland. Either way gotta get off the sixth floor.
Made it tot he playland, the walk down was the same as the walk home, Isa... hollering all the way. We all sang The Ants Go Marching, but he could have cared less and literally yelled and screamed and cried without tears the whole walk back, I didnt even dare meet eyes with all the people staring, and I wasn't even holding his hand tightly, although I felt like screaming with him. They didnt really play that nicely at the indoor area, Inayah had about four crying fits, and Idreis had fun terrorizing everyone. Ibrahim actually won the best behavior award (his first), but he did nice and he is so strong, they have a firemans pole there and he pulled himself up it, six times. We are both cooking dinner now and he is helping wash dishes. He has been on the same pan for the last 15 minutes but it keeps him from bothering Idries who is feeding Inara some baby food. So, two Ibo tips (vacuming and dishes).
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Cold and Windy... I Need A Jacket!
Back from the dentist and has to gargle and brush 6 times a day.. dont know how that is gonna happen as we barely can get him to brush twice a day..
Looks like dessert is happening before dinner tonight since K just brought home popsicles.
Still dont know about dinner plans..

Monday, October 12, 2009
Six Little Monkeys Driving to the Zoo

First time we are all home alone, as K is on the road. Chilled out this morning, made sure the older three took their spelling tests. Then decided to head out to the Kyiv Zoo, we all jumped in a cab Turkish style, Ish had Isa on his lap in the front, and all the rest of us squished in the back. Got over to the zoo only to find out it was closed on Mondays... taxi cab back to the apartment.. needless to say we were all disappointed, Inayah was more on the pissed side, "So, we're just gonna go home?, I mean we could go bowling." I cooked dinner early and then left it covered with foil and we walked up to the park/ We walked around and they played and ran. I bought some bubbles from the pony ride crew, and blew them for all the children. We ended up with about six Ukrainian toddlers around us, two sisters in matching jackets enjoyed them. Inayah met a girl who was her age and spoke English a bit, the girl had a good time practicing her English. It is so funny to see the stares and watch people attempting to count the blur of children that run past them. We decided we wanted to learn how to say, "Hello, why are you staring?", in Russian. We all laughed together thinking about that. So many young people drink so leisurely, and so much public affection from young couples. Walked back home and since we were not able to make it into the zoo, feeling guilty, I bought some Sprite for them to have with dinner.... Okay, truth is I haven't had a Coke since we have been here and since it was my first day alone with them since I have been here, I need a drink!! and I derseve it!!
So to all my Coke drinkers, this one is for us.
We may try the zoo again tomorrow but hopeful to go to Meridian School for a visit and also take Idreis to the dentist. Idreis won the laugh of the day when he said, "It's geting serious!" We all cracked up. Ibrahim wins again for pest of the day, he may hold this title for the whole visit as he seems to know well how to get beneath all of our skin. One thing is for sure, we are all getting our legs in shape walking up these six flights of stairs, as you can see in the video. Isa is getting quite good at them, the first week we were here he would make it halfway and then be like, Oh, my legs, my legs", now when he gets tired he just wants someone to hold his hand.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Rainy Day
Khalid teased her today and said she looked like Frederick Douglass.

After purchasing those items we headed to the childrens area to get a puzzle. To all of our suprise, there was a indoor play area, bigger than McDonald's has too. They were all excited, and so was I because I know they hadn't had any excercise besides the down. So from what I could tell, parents can drop their children off while they shop. It was $20 greivans per child. The two ladies working spoke a bit of English but one of them seemed bothered by my lack of speaking Russian. The kids had a good time playing.
Tacos for dinner and movie night
Friday, October 9, 2009
Jehovah Witness Attacks in Russian
A few more blocks down Inayah notices a little girl and waves to her. We turn left up the block and the next thing I notice a lady trying to get my attention. She waves her hands around in a universal sign languge to ask me if all six of the children are mine, I nodd my head yes. Next thing she pulls out a magazine. I am steady shaking my head no, no, no and saying, "English, English". All I can make out from her Russian is. "Jehovah Witness". I laugh to myself, thinking, they are even persistant and overbearing Jehovah Witnesses in the Ukraine. She attempts to turn the page of the magazine and starts rambling again. I pat her on her shoulder and smile, shaking my head NO, one more time and then we continue on. This happened to be the mother of the little girl Inayah smiled at.
Isa is home sick and walks the apartment saying, " I want mommies house, I dont like this house, i want to go home, i want to watch movies in my room, I want mommies home." Poor baby, he keeps getting his shoes and jacket thinking we can just walk next door and be home.

We had our usually Friday night dance off, not sure who won but Idreis had some new moves and Ibrahim footwork was one of the evenings highlights. Ishmael put together a thought out routine and Inayah ended her dancing with the splits. I would call it a four way tie.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
El-Amin's 33pts, Not Enough...
Waited for Sacscha on the block underneath the protection of a boutiques over hang, he is late, traffic and weather conditions. Finally pulls up, we all make our way into the van. At least I can drift back to sleep for the ride, we all did.
Arrived at the game a few minutes into the second quarter, we are down six. Momentum is upbeat, the big men are getting hammered and one of them is in foul trouble. A few nice jumpers and drives by El-Amin. The game is against a team called Kryvbasbasket. Isa is begging for "Something" by half-time, and we are still down 39-43. Ishmael and Idreis made it out on the court for a few shots and show for the crowd.
The team rallied a few times in the third, a few steals and executed offense, but Budivelnik was never able to gain the lead, although tied it at least once or twice in the second half. El-Amin had a few threes in the last mintues of the games but it was not enough for a victory. He finished with 33 points, 7 assists, 1 steal. Game final score was 97-92.
We found a pizza spot called New York Street Pizza, the large is the size of a small and is cut in four pieces. Price is not bad and chicken with cheese and pinneapple, the children loved. Isa didnt made it to dinner as he was fast asleep as soon as we walked into the apartment. They watched the movie Chilly Dogs and I decided to retire early for once and prayed for no 1am cereal demands.










