When being a mother of six seems a bit overwhelming.. Add to that equation, published author, student seeking Elementary Ed degree, business owner and survived living overseas in France, Turkey and the Ukraine. My grandmother told me I was an expert today.
Friday, October 30, 2009
H1N1 has made its' way to the Ukraine
Managed to get them all in bed by 9:30, only to find out from Khalid that the team has cancelled next week road trip because of H1N1 and then I get online and do some surfing, to also learn that they have closed schools here for 3 weeks....... Now if you have been reading, you know what that means...., 3 more weeks of homeschool! Dont' know if I should scream now or later. The links I found are here under H1N1 and Influenza A. I have to admit I am a bit on the weary side... I don't know if the vacine is safe, but I do know they don't even have it here yet... we did get the regular flu shots before we left. The ironic thing is when we were walking home from the playland I saw a man with a medical face mask on, and I thought to myself, I wonder why he has that on...., now I know why. I know the best things we can do is keep our hands washed, etc.. good thing they have all been breastfed and have all those extra infectious fighting immune systems. Some good information from the CDC, and I know that hand washing and other common sense tools are the best way to fight flu and other sickness.
I'm still a little scared, okay a lot scared... but can't let fear be my guide.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
This Is It !!!

We tried to go last night to the movie, it is showing in English for a week, unfortunately it was sold out. We were all bummed. But, we were able to go this afternoon. The movie theater was really nice, chandilers, pillars and red leather cushioned seats that reclined, really nice... the popcorn was good too. We all enjoyed the movie, when it first started I started to tear up but no tears fell, I guess my heart was tearing up inside. The music was good and it was fun for all of us to sing the songs. Inayah was singing so loud to Beat It, that when the clip in the movie was over, she was still singing, "Beat It!!" all loud, the whole theater had a laugh together. She also made sure to tell me that, "Michael Jackson is my favorite singer and Barack Obama is my favorite president", and also wanted to know where he is buried at so" we can go visit him". Inayah was up dancing for about the last half of the movie, trying to imitate the moves of Michael. Isa fell asleep 3/4 the way through the movie, full on popcorn, juice boxes and M&Ms. Ibrahim had to show us his crotch grabbing moves in the dark when Billie Jean came on. I glanced over a few times to catch Khalid up out of his seat dancing and popping. It was special to share as a family, especially remembering how we stayed awake unitl 2am listening to his music and watching the music videos the evening that he passed away.
I liked the movie and it was for a me a nice closing to his life. Michael Jackson was a wonderful humanitarian and if anything else I hope people leave this movie with a desire to help create change in the world. As we left the movies, it was slightly drizzling outside, perfect for our slightly sad mood. I opened the heavy doors and yelled out, "MIIIAAACCCHHHEEAAALLL!!!, WE MISS YOU!!", Ishmael looked at me and laughed because this is not the first time I have done this. Idreis followed in suit with the rain as his eyes filled with tears and his cheeks held onto them until they fell onto the cement and joined the puddles that were already there. He cried the entire taxi ride home and up the 6 flights of stairs. I reminded him that, AllahuAllam, Allah Knows Best, and that we have to pray for his family, and children, and mother/father. Because as much as we think we miss him, they miss and love him even more. Sure to be a Michael Jackson music evening on the sixth floor.
We saw the movie at www.kinopalace.net for anyone who may read and want to catch a movie in English.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Countdown begins, as the older three will start school on Monday. Idreis is a little worried about being the new kid and had a cry this afternoon about that, Inayah can't wait, and Ishmael is just too cool and laid back to be bothered... And one of the other American ballplayers has a daughter that will start as well, so he will already have a friend. The registration was a bit overwhelming but they all played outside at the school park so at least I didnt have to bother with them. Just a lot of paperwork. But they are all squared away, not sure how they are getting to school on Monday but at least we have a few days to get packbacks and get all of that figured out.
I got down on the 1's and 2's in the kitchen tonight, although I did find a great Indian restuarant that is not far from us, can't wait to go there,but will have to wait, because we went grocery shopping and seemed a bit wasteful to go out and eat when we had food in the fridge to cook..
Also found some white sugar at the neighborhood shop so now I may try and make some brownies tomorrow...???
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Two Black Eyes
We did make cookies this afternoon, they turned out okay, I did not have white sugar so substituted syrup instead. They taste a bit off to me, but the children like them so I guess that's all that matters. I had to measure by the eye as I don't have any measuring cups, so that could have been the problem too. I'm sure they have white sugar somewhere, I had the brown sugar thanks to my packages, which 4 have still not arrived... why I paid for priority 6-10 days...
Idreis and Ish cut up the vegetables for the Curry while the rest did cookie patrol. It was interesting to see how much better they all get along when they are working together for a common cause. There was at least no arguing for that 1/2 hour of cutting and baking. We all worked listening to the very best of the Jacksons.
We left the sixth floor and took a walk out, so glad that I brought the sling, much easier than lugging the stroller and forces Isa to walk. The one I have is made by Munchkin and is called Jelly Belly. We walked around for bout a half hour and found ourselves in front of a huge toy store. They all picked something out, Inayah a baby doll in a crib, and the boys all remote control cars, Isa got a lego car. We had to walk the rest of the way back home in the dark which I was a little aprehensive but it was only about 3 blocks and we made it back in here safely. The boys flew to the upper level to make ramps and play with the cars, as I finished getting the kiwi cut for dinner and made the rice for the curry, I peaked in on Inayah playing and poor Inara was sitting in the baby crib with the new baby. Now the baby crib is a little over a foot long and about a 1/2 foot wide. Inara was just as happy as could be sucking on the baby dolls bald head. Inayah was pretending to feed Inara, and she went right along with the imaginary play, opening her mouth to eat air food. It was too cute. They are sitting around now playing Uno minus Isa. Khalid and them won the game, he had 33 points 6 assists.
I'm about to serve dinner and relax with the Wall-e puzzle that I bought at the toy store.
And it's Isa with the two black eyes, one thanks to Idreis and the other thanks to ??? who knows.. how it happened.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Back In The WebWorld
I did learn my first Russian word, I am planning to bake some chocolate chip cookies with the children tonight after the pizza comes, so anyways, I had to buy some butter (Maslak), we went down to the mom/pop shop downstairs and bought some with the help of the Point It book that G&G gave us.
Today will be the first of four spent without K, they are on the road again.
Headed out now to finally really go to the zoo.
We have our own taxi driver who we call regularly, and he was outside at 5pm to pick us up after 2 hours at the Kyiv zoo. We had a really nice time, and I have to say the Six were at their top behavior, I had really no problems and so that was wonderful. We saw some really cool animals, peguins, lion cubs, and a lot of snakes which was fun because we have been watching about them so much on Animal Planet. Inayah also took note that many of the animals were not taken are of very well. One of the zebras had wounds, the rhino had something going on top of his head. She has been watching too much of Animal Rescue, even though she is right about the condition. I am sorry to say that MN Zoo has them beat, although they have just celebrated their 100 year anniversary this year. The poor elephant was dancing instead of the normal crazy pacing, we all teased that he was doing the 1..2.. step over and over and over. The animals were very friendly and a lot of them came up close to the fences. But the overall attempts to create habitats were not the greatest. They did a nice job in the Reptile House, but then at the same time, they had the lions, pacing leopard and lion cubs in the same building... a very nice assortment of snakes, crocs, lizards and also a lot of birds throughout the zoo park. We didn't make it to the walkway or park part of the zoo, 2 hours was enough walking for Isa although I did bring the stroller. It seemed like they had a whole entire park to walk through besides the zoo. Hialrious to see skunks and racoons on exhibit. None of the monkeys were out, in fact all their cages were empty. Also the bear section was empty or being renovated. The wolves were also pacing and pacing which was sad. We all shared a cotton candy which was 3.50 greivans. Fun thing too was we were able to see the tiger eating meat and also one of vultures/falcons, and also the baby zebra (my favorite) I will list all of the favorites.
Ishmael= The whole Reptile house
Idreis= the crocidiles
Inayah= the snakes
Ibrahim= the horses
Isa= the zebras
On to the first baking project sine we been here. The oven seems to work good, the muffins and cornbread were a hit. I will just have to figure out the conversion temperature so they dont burn up. Sunday, October 18, 2009

Saturday, October 17, 2009
'Things have Changed"- Inayah
Inayah had Idreis' first grade teacher and they were both comparing their time with her. Both remembering times with Mrs. Bielke during the lockdowns and emergency drills. So, when Idreis was informing her on his version, she politely and snickerly said, "Things have changed", we all cracked up.
Dinner was a bit of a joke, well lets just say, thrown together, but everyone ate. Pickles and cheese for starters... dont know what kind of cheese we purchased at the store but one of them was like a smokey string cheese and the other one... really could ahve used some crackers, I jsut hope it wasn't goat cheese or something, but they ate it. Then they had bananas and pears followed by french fries and steamed shrimp... The one cool part of being overseas is you can always blame the dinner on the lack of having a Lunds around the corner to pick up what you need.
Khalid and them won the game, he had 14points and 6 assists. I'm sure Ishmael had a blast on the road.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Rain Rain Go Away, Cant Get Off The 6th Floor Today
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Ramadan in Ocotber !!
I also was able to finally get my hair conditioner and Ms. Jessie's products which are perfect for people with natural curly hair. No more Frederick Douglass jokes for Khalid. Inayah will be ready for the runway. It was like Ramadan over here as we ripped open the boxes... still missing at least four boxes with all of my Thanksgiving items that I need to make our meal.
Headed to the zoo or back to the indoor playland. Either way gotta get off the sixth floor.
Made it tot he playland, the walk down was the same as the walk home, Isa... hollering all the way. We all sang The Ants Go Marching, but he could have cared less and literally yelled and screamed and cried without tears the whole walk back, I didnt even dare meet eyes with all the people staring, and I wasn't even holding his hand tightly, although I felt like screaming with him. They didnt really play that nicely at the indoor area, Inayah had about four crying fits, and Idreis had fun terrorizing everyone. Ibrahim actually won the best behavior award (his first), but he did nice and he is so strong, they have a firemans pole there and he pulled himself up it, six times. We are both cooking dinner now and he is helping wash dishes. He has been on the same pan for the last 15 minutes but it keeps him from bothering Idries who is feeding Inara some baby food. So, two Ibo tips (vacuming and dishes).
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Cold and Windy... I Need A Jacket!
Back from the dentist and has to gargle and brush 6 times a day.. dont know how that is gonna happen as we barely can get him to brush twice a day..
Looks like dessert is happening before dinner tonight since K just brought home popsicles.
Still dont know about dinner plans..

Monday, October 12, 2009
Six Little Monkeys Driving to the Zoo

First time we are all home alone, as K is on the road. Chilled out this morning, made sure the older three took their spelling tests. Then decided to head out to the Kyiv Zoo, we all jumped in a cab Turkish style, Ish had Isa on his lap in the front, and all the rest of us squished in the back. Got over to the zoo only to find out it was closed on Mondays... taxi cab back to the apartment.. needless to say we were all disappointed, Inayah was more on the pissed side, "So, we're just gonna go home?, I mean we could go bowling." I cooked dinner early and then left it covered with foil and we walked up to the park/ We walked around and they played and ran. I bought some bubbles from the pony ride crew, and blew them for all the children. We ended up with about six Ukrainian toddlers around us, two sisters in matching jackets enjoyed them. Inayah met a girl who was her age and spoke English a bit, the girl had a good time practicing her English. It is so funny to see the stares and watch people attempting to count the blur of children that run past them. We decided we wanted to learn how to say, "Hello, why are you staring?", in Russian. We all laughed together thinking about that. So many young people drink so leisurely, and so much public affection from young couples. Walked back home and since we were not able to make it into the zoo, feeling guilty, I bought some Sprite for them to have with dinner.... Okay, truth is I haven't had a Coke since we have been here and since it was my first day alone with them since I have been here, I need a drink!! and I derseve it!!
So to all my Coke drinkers, this one is for us.
We may try the zoo again tomorrow but hopeful to go to Meridian School for a visit and also take Idreis to the dentist. Idreis won the laugh of the day when he said, "It's geting serious!" We all cracked up. Ibrahim wins again for pest of the day, he may hold this title for the whole visit as he seems to know well how to get beneath all of our skin. One thing is for sure, we are all getting our legs in shape walking up these six flights of stairs, as you can see in the video. Isa is getting quite good at them, the first week we were here he would make it halfway and then be like, Oh, my legs, my legs", now when he gets tired he just wants someone to hold his hand.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Rainy Day
Khalid teased her today and said she looked like Frederick Douglass.

After purchasing those items we headed to the childrens area to get a puzzle. To all of our suprise, there was a indoor play area, bigger than McDonald's has too. They were all excited, and so was I because I know they hadn't had any excercise besides the down. So from what I could tell, parents can drop their children off while they shop. It was $20 greivans per child. The two ladies working spoke a bit of English but one of them seemed bothered by my lack of speaking Russian. The kids had a good time playing.
Tacos for dinner and movie night
Friday, October 9, 2009
Jehovah Witness Attacks in Russian
A few more blocks down Inayah notices a little girl and waves to her. We turn left up the block and the next thing I notice a lady trying to get my attention. She waves her hands around in a universal sign languge to ask me if all six of the children are mine, I nodd my head yes. Next thing she pulls out a magazine. I am steady shaking my head no, no, no and saying, "English, English". All I can make out from her Russian is. "Jehovah Witness". I laugh to myself, thinking, they are even persistant and overbearing Jehovah Witnesses in the Ukraine. She attempts to turn the page of the magazine and starts rambling again. I pat her on her shoulder and smile, shaking my head NO, one more time and then we continue on. This happened to be the mother of the little girl Inayah smiled at.
Isa is home sick and walks the apartment saying, " I want mommies house, I dont like this house, i want to go home, i want to watch movies in my room, I want mommies home." Poor baby, he keeps getting his shoes and jacket thinking we can just walk next door and be home.

We had our usually Friday night dance off, not sure who won but Idreis had some new moves and Ibrahim footwork was one of the evenings highlights. Ishmael put together a thought out routine and Inayah ended her dancing with the splits. I would call it a four way tie.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
El-Amin's 33pts, Not Enough...
Waited for Sacscha on the block underneath the protection of a boutiques over hang, he is late, traffic and weather conditions. Finally pulls up, we all make our way into the van. At least I can drift back to sleep for the ride, we all did.
Arrived at the game a few minutes into the second quarter, we are down six. Momentum is upbeat, the big men are getting hammered and one of them is in foul trouble. A few nice jumpers and drives by El-Amin. The game is against a team called Kryvbasbasket. Isa is begging for "Something" by half-time, and we are still down 39-43. Ishmael and Idreis made it out on the court for a few shots and show for the crowd.
The team rallied a few times in the third, a few steals and executed offense, but Budivelnik was never able to gain the lead, although tied it at least once or twice in the second half. El-Amin had a few threes in the last mintues of the games but it was not enough for a victory. He finished with 33 points, 7 assists, 1 steal. Game final score was 97-92.
We found a pizza spot called New York Street Pizza, the large is the size of a small and is cut in four pieces. Price is not bad and chicken with cheese and pinneapple, the children loved. Isa didnt made it to dinner as he was fast asleep as soon as we walked into the apartment. They watched the movie Chilly Dogs and I decided to retire early for once and prayed for no 1am cereal demands.Monday, October 5, 2009
MyMorning
Only visited one school today, it was really nice and amazing what the children were studying. There was a painting from a student in the hall way with the earth at the center and four gold/yellowish balls surronding the earth and in the corner printed in 4th grade penmanship were the words " We are only here for a short time", Very touching and almost made me cry... very wierd.
Dinner at a Greek restaurant that was good, Isa only managed to break one glass and Idreis spilled water all over the table, Ibrahim fell asleep after the warm bread and olive oil was served. Im not sure that we ordered any Greek foods, I had chicken breasts and rice.
Rosa is leaving in the morning and then the real challenge begins.
Finally punching ou at 1:24am
TheFlightOver
Next flight is a breeze, 2 hours, we all sleep.
Arrive safely to our destination and put half our bags in a taxi because we all couldnt fit in the van.







